Korean Marriage Practices

before a traditional marriage is held, both male and female family members are required to know each other's family situation, knowledge and personality through the media.

parents are required to meet first if they have a good feeling about each other, so sometimes both parties have never seen each other.

after mutual consent to marriage, the man gives her the “invite marriage” first.

if she had any idea of marriage, she would give the man the "writ of marriage" and then enter into marriage.

this is very similar to ancient chinese marriages.

nacce

received a copy of the marriage, and the man's family will write a “nace” thank you for the marriage, greeting each other with the date and time of the marriage, and the “four pillars” will follow the dry weight of 60 khats, recording the month of birth and the time of birth, and will give it to the bride's family in red cloth.

the bride's family who receives the “four pillars” will carefully refer to the bride's and bride's date of birth, choose the date and time of the wedding, and then write on the white paper about the bride's acceptance of the four pillars at the traditional wedding, and ask the man to tell her the bride's letter of the size of the dress number to be worn by the groom at the wedding.

that is, the bridegroom's gift to the bride's after the exchange of the four pillars.

the groom's family, after receiving a letter from the bride's family, sent to the bride's family a gift, mainly of blue and red silk, from the bride's “slice pick” at the time of the wedding, to the bride's family, and therefore to the bride's family's credit card at the time of the marriage with the bride's wife.

among them, pickles are usually delivered one month before the wedding.

a gift of “currency” to the bride before the wedding.

and “marry books” and “seizures” usually include more clothing when the family is well-off.

it's packed together and sent together with the "catalogue of items", which is called a "letter".

the bride's “marriage book”, “nacce” and “four pillars” received together with the goods she needed at the time of the marriage, together with the cost, will remain in good faith for the rest of her life, indicating her faith in her husband until the end of her life they will accompany her to the coffin.

letter

: the wedding book and the gift card are in boxes for the bride's home.

the customs vary from place to place, most of them referred to as narcos or seals.

those who go to the bride ' s home with their suitcases on their backs are generally the older ones, with children and women.

the bride's mother, who received the letter box, had to keep the marriage book until the daughter had given birth to a child, and the father-in-law and the mother-in-law were humbled and did not send it to her daughter when she felt that she would not return to her mother-in-law.

at the end of the traditional festivities between the two families, the groom must get up early on the day of the wedding, if there is a hall, if there is no room, and if there is no room, the parents should sit down and solemnly bow their heads.

at the end of the dock, the groom kneels in front of his parents to thank his parents for his upbringing and says he wants to welcome his wife to a good and serious life, to thank his parents for their kindness and then to come to the wedding hall.

the bride-to-be also gives thanks to his parents on the morning of the marriage and then goes to the wedding room.

the first procedure for the marriage ceremony, the bridegroom's gift to the geese, is called the geesei don't know.

after the groom's intervention, she went to the bride's house with her family's guidance for a wedding ceremony.

“house-in-law” is usually used to walk to the bride's house, but the groom will also be given horses to the bride's house.

when the bridegroom arrived at the bride ' s door, the bride ' s representative came out to welcome the guests and introduced them to the house.

when the groom enters the gate, he crosses the “fire” basin in the yard, which means getting rid of the devil.

the groom put the brought geese on the table and then stomped twice.

the mother-in-law came out with the geese table and walked into the house.

the geese symbolize the age of the white head, which means that a once-in-a-lifetime relationship remains the same.

they used to be live geese, and they now use wooden geese.

the geese drink is primarily about learning the three qualities the geese possess:

1, the geese will always respect love once they have agreed.

if you lose your partner when you live, you will never find another partner.

when the geese fly, line up and follow the rules, the geese who fly in front will respond with respect.

where the geese have travelled,

3 will leave a mark of their own, drawing on the geese's habits and saying that they want to leave their lives with good deeds and good lives forever.

at the end of the bride's house or at the east end of the bride's hall or at the big table in the yard.

the bride waiting in the house is also called the crown when the groom enters the gate, and in order to keep the demons away from the bride on the day of celebration, the bride has to put red-paper gel on her left and right face, and the eyebrow has to be put on one and then ready to go to the wedding hall.

when the bride and groom meet in the wedding hall, the bride and groom worship each other, according to the principle of the yin and yang of the eastern philosophy of the cosmology, the single number is positive, the double number is negative, the groom is positive, the bride is feminine, especially when the bride is bowing in double numbers, so that the bride worships the groom twice, the groom returns once, and the groom repeats it again.

at the end of the ceremony at

, the bridegroom kneels down and the bride sits, while the bride drinks on the wine bar around the silk, and the bride bends over.

the other person brought the wine bar to the left and then to the right, and then to the groom, at which point the groom licked the wine and then gave it to the bride, and finally took it off.

at the end of the ceremony, the guests put the dates and chestnuts in the bridegroom's pocket for the early birth of children.

at the end of the wedding ceremony at the bride's home, the first night of the night, the room they were staying in was called the “new room”.

one of the customs of their first night was peeking at the new house.

one of the reasons for peeking at the new house was that there was a tradition of early marriage in the past for the sake of early transmission, that the one who thought of the bride alone, or that of a young person who secretly had a relationship, had taken the bride away at first night, and that there was a saying that the new house was being guarded by “goods and evils” and that the new house was being guarded by the festivities.

after the marriage ceremony at the bride's house, the bride stays at the bride's house for three days and the groom goes home with the bridenew row.

before the day of his return, the bride's family was going to give her mother-in-law dates and meat for the first time, for the first time, and for the first time on the table.

almost all the brides in the new business will go to the groom's house in a palanquin.

when they arrive at the groom ' s house, people come out to soybeans, red beans, cotton seeds, salt, etc., and set fire to the door and let the bride cross over, which means to get rid of the devils, and these customs are now visible.

the coin

is put on the table for the food brought from the bride's home, and the husband and wife are present at the in-laws and introduce the order of family and relatives.

at that time, only the bride stomped on her family and the groom stood by the table to introduce her to her family.

if their grandparents were present, they would be given another table, first to their parents, then to their grandparents, and then to their immediate brothers, before they and their families。