Marriage practices in Malaysia
the engagement gift
usually comes from a male to a female and must also be an engagement dinner.
after the engagement, if the man repents, the woman does not return the gift.
in the event of breach of contract by the woman, the death of the woman shall be doubled.
prior to the wedding
, the parties may make certain appointments under certain conditions, during which the man, in addition to raising the bride's money, sends money to the fiancée on a monthly basis to express his willingness to take responsibility for the bride's maintenance and the fiancée will deposit the money for the dowry or for future household use.
the malays are usually married to a woman, who covers all the expenses of the wedding.
malai's wedding was a great one and usually took two or three days and carried out a “triple gift”.
the “three days” of marriage is usually three days for a malaysian wedding.
the first day was held at the bride ' s home or at a local mosque.
the wedding date is usually friday, as it is a muslim day of rest and the wedding is conducted by the imam.
with diamond rings and other jewellery, the groom, accompanied by relatives, went to the bride ' s home or mosque and met the imam, the witness ' s wife and the bride ' s elders before the wedding ceremony began under the auspices of the imam.
at the ceremony, the imam asked the groom and the bride, respectively, “will they take/marry in the name of allah?” both the groom and the bride would say, "in the name of allah, i do." after the oath, the newcomers exchanged gifts, then recited the qur'an and prayed for good in the presence of the prophet.
the bride's bride price is to be displayed to guests in the den.
there are all kinds of clothes and cosmetics in fine boxes.
sunday is the official wedding day and guests will be invited at the same day.
at the wedding, there was a vibe called marriage.
the bridegroom is surrounded by a group of unmarried young people who bang and sing and dance to the bride ' s home, followed by a large family group.
the bridesmaids and the bridesmaids will stop the groom and ask for an entry fee, which is somewhat similar to the traditional wedding practices in the country.
after a few of these steps, the groom will see the bride.
after that, the new man will sit on the bed of the flowers with a gorgeous dress, and the old man will cast flowers and rice over his head and pray for them.
a gift is available to guests at the malaysian wedding: it used to be a cup of rice and red eggs and beautiful paper flowers.
eggs symbolize the bride ' s health to add to the family, and rice is a sign of well-dressed food and a good life.
however, chocolates, jell-o and cakes are now generally offered.
on the seventh day after the
visit, the new person returns to the male family and then resides in the female family.
in recent years, this custom has gradually changed, with the bride living in a male household, especially in the cities.
marak's divorce, like that of other muslims, is divorce if the man repeats the arabic word "marak" three times, meaning "i'll divorce you" and then register with imam.
after divorce, a man can remarry at any time and a woman must have 100 days before remarrying.
the woman filed for divorce, which was difficult to separate if the man did not agree.
in the event of divorce, both men and women own their personal property and have a recognized home