Days and days: old wedding sex education

reading hints: happy days, cave rooms, under-clause, three days back door...

these seemingly old-fashioned traditions of marriage hide the potential for sexual health.

now, getting married is a wedding day for a drink, but you may not know that chinese traditional marriage practices are very tedious.

these are not superstitions or red tape but are related to sexual health.

marriage cannot be avoided, but sex is also the most taboo topic in china, so smart old ancestors have come up with a lot of seemingly elegant and scientific approaches to sex, which have become a custom to follow.

the best wedding days are measured on the basis of the male and female relationship and the date of birth.

after the "happy day" has been served, the man has commissioned a gift from the matchmaker to the woman's house.

if she picks up the day at home, the happy day is set.

if the woman's family returns the day, it means it's a problem and needs to be revisited.

so what's the problem? it's not a bad day, it's a day that coincides with a girl's menstrual period, which is not allowed to have sex.

at this point, the husband ' s parents are invited to mr.

fung shui again with gifts.

mr.

feng shui's date at this point must have been about 15 days before the last rollover.

because of these extremely sensitive issues of menstruation, one cannot ask them in plain language, so this difficult problem is solved by this “dating day”.

if the matchmaker sends a new happy day, the mother's family will follow.

however, as we all know, the period of ovulation of women after menstruation or about 15 days in advance, and the lack of better contraceptive methods before, is a frequent occurrence of new honeymoon pregnancies.

according to modern medical evidence, at the time of the marriage, the husband and the wife were not fit to have a child because of, inter alia, labour and alcohol, so that mr.

fung shui did not know how to choose a day but did not know about reproductive health.

another way of “dating days” is for mr.

feng shui to choose two days at once, one in the first half of the month and one in the second half of the month, to be chosen by the mother and to avoid the bride's menstrual period.

the bottom of the box, the cave room

, was a obscurantist sex educationp, and many newlyweds are blushing before they get married, and even worse, they have been ordered to live their lives by mere media.

it's very embarrassing for two people who have never seen each other, to have the most intimate contact at night.

as a result, the day before the bride ' s marriage, the mother had to make a temporary raid to get sex education for her daughter, and when she got it, she was scared of her daughter.

sex education has a special tool called "cell down" and civilian homes are mostly made of china cups and aristocratic homes are made of ivorycolored pictures.

the cavity room is also a form of sex education.

as the saying goes, "the bride-in-law has no size for three days." after entering the house, both men and women are allowed to enter the house “to see the new daughter-in-law” and to flirt with the bride, the obscurant and the ingenuity, with the intention of turning the daughter-in-law, who was already shy and shy, into a very generous daughter-in-law.

more importantly, in the caves, people want new people to do all kinds of intimate, secretive, but clear-cut, sexual moves, to put an end to the strangeness and shame of the bride and groom and to pave the way for that exciting moment.

it's a "foreplay" in which people are all involved.

it's actually an ambiguous form of sex education: that's what it is, that's what it is.

three days back at the door

and the bride's "rehabilitation"

on the third day of the marriage, her mother's brother or brother had to take her back to a place where she lived for three days for seven days, and then the groom had to pick her up.

the apparent implication is that the bride has been with her parents since she was a child and has left home this time in fear of missing her family, so she has to go back and see her parents.

in fact, the reason behind the scenes is that the bride was not at the door, was not at the door, was essentially a virgin.

the first night of the virgin's life is marked by a hymen damage, which is more painful.

when the groom was young and young, he didn't know how to feel sorry for her family, who feared that the bride could not bear it, so the bride was taken back in the name of missing parents.

in return, married brides are often called to the side by their sister-in-law, whispering in secret words, asking about the harmony and beauty of the couple's life, and teaching about how to live together and about women's health.

in addition, there are many instances of newlyweds returning to their parents ' homes with a view to protecting the bride and suspending the house.

today, with the development of society, many traditional customs have disappeared, but the sexual health of the newlyweds is still very important, and it is to be hoped that you will be inspired by the laughter of this paper。