Do you understand the importance of appearance? It's easier to beg if you're good-looking.

It's a world that values appearance! It's a world that values appearance! It's a world that values appearance! We all know this reality, but I never thought that reality could be so real!

Good looks make it easier to find a job!

Those with good looks don't need to search for boyfriends or girlfriends; they just come to them!

Good looks allow you to dress however you want!

That's fine, but the most frustrating part is that even乞讨 (begging) is easier for those with good looks. How are people with average looks supposed to live in this world? Why do I feel this way? Just look at the reality below, and you'll understand!

A news website in the U.S., Buzzfeed, once conducted an experiment. A reporter named Yessica begged twice—once when she was messy and unkempt, and another time after being carefully dressed.

When she begged on the street looking messy, no one was willing to stop for her.

After being well-dressed, she easily caught passersby's attention.

In the end, the messy-looking Yessica only earned $4.50, while the well-dressed one raised $26.70.

Interestingly, a similar thing happened to soccer star Cristiano Ronaldo. Many know Ronaldo. He's skilled on the field, handsome, and women want to marry him while men want to date him. Yet, when dressed as a homeless person and showing off his soccer skills on the street, he was met with indifference.

Once he removed his disguise, the crowd swarmed around him.

So, in a world that values appearance, having good looks makes a difference. netizens纷纷感叹：

小宝lisa: I pick pretty fruits, so why not people?

妇联主任鱼七七: I've been told I'm not attractive, but appearance still matters. I'll get plastic surgery when I have money, crying

子文1990: Looks determine the start, but character determines how far you go. No one has the obligation to see a beautiful soul through messy appearance.

允允允呐: Looks really matter. Who has time to appreciate your inner beauty on a first meeting?

丸丸丸小丸子: Looks are really important!

飞翔的脱水鱼: People who only look at looks are shallow, and those who ignore them are fake.

Ugh... after seeing all this, those with good looks can laugh quietly, while those with average looks should hide and cry for a bit.

However, don't think that good looks solve everything. An Arab newspaper, Elaph, reported that a man in the UAE was deported because he was "too handsome." While this wouldn't happen in China, being too good-looking can also lower your security risk.

Additionally, I want to advise those with good looks: Don't be too reckless. Sometimes, I see people with good looks but poor manners, lacking taste, or recklessly getting plastic surgery... My heart aches for them.

For those with average looks, I want to say not to lose heart too quickly, and don't rush to the plastic surgery clinic. The world values appearance, but it also values charm! If your looks aren't great, no problem—improving your charm can add points. So, how can you develop good charm?

1. Life is like a play—“perform” well

Good clothing can enhance one's appearance. What makes good clothing? Naturally, what suits you is best. Below, I recommend styles for different body types.

1) Pear-shaped body:

① A-line short skirt + T-shirt + High heels/Pointed flat shoes

② Bodycon dress + Light-colored shirt/Pop袖上衣 + High heels/Pointed flat shoes

③ High-waisted dark pencil pants + Loose top (the top part is tucked into the pants) + High heels/Sneakers/Pointed flat shoes (shoe color should match the pants color)

2) Upper body obesity:

①伞裙 + Dark T-shirt + High heels

② Maxi dress + Batwing sleeve T-shirt + High heels/Pointed flat shoes

③ Straight dress + High heels/Pointed flat shoes

3) How to wear if your legs are thick?

① cropped wide-leg pants + Short T-shirt + High heels/Pointed flat shoes

② High-waisted short skirt + Short T-shirt/Blouse + High heels/Pointed flat shoes

③ Midi dress + Short T-shirt + High heels/Pointed flat shoes

2. Use your body shape to boost your points

What's the first thing you notice about a person? Of course, their face! If you think so too, you really underestimate people. I once conducted a survey on this topic. It included 336 people, 94 males and 242 females. On the question of "Which part of a woman attracts you most," 40% of males and 36% of females said face, while the rest focused on body shape. Just look at those models who steal the show—they're not all naturally beautiful. If you don't have good looks, sculpt a great body instead.

The minimum requirement for a good body is not being overweight. Through diet control and exercise, keep your weight at a healthy level. While losing fat, also build muscle to give your body a defined line. For strength training, simple exercises include push-ups, crunches, pull-ups, and planks. Strength training can effectively stimulate muscles. If you don't have training experience, I suggest not doing too much strength training daily, or you risk muscle strain. Do about 20 minutes each time, 2~3 times a week.

3. Charm can't lack character

Good charm can't lack good character. Confidence, politeness, enthusiasm, loyalty... There are too many good qualities. If a person possesses all of them, they can practically become a deity. The good qualities I'm talking about here have only two requirements: being true to yourself and being harmless to others. Before doing anything, think about whether it contradicts your original intentions and whether it harms others.

Well, reality is what it is, and I've shared some wisdom. Now, it's up to each of you to think about it.

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