It's a unique Uighur wedding custom
the monogamous system of the uighurs, which is followed by a marriage ceremony before the marriage of young men and women, reflects the seriousness of the uighurs in their marriage.
the man must also pay the bride price before marriage.
upon receipt of a marriage certificate, both men and women hold wedding feasts for their respective relatives, good friends and colleagues, and some ask for a `nika'.
the weddings were bride-receiving ceremonies, head-opening ceremonies, wedding ceremonies for the bride and groom.
after the feast, there will be "macy leaf." now let's look at the processes and customs of uighur marriage, marriage and marriage! the young man, who's in love with the girl, or the man's parents are prepared to find a girl to be his daughter-in-law, is required to perform the process of “marriage” in advance.
a survey is conducted before a marriage is proposed to the woman's family.
the girl's age, family, face, personality, etc.
are known and considered appropriate.
there are also young men and women who are already passionate and who agree to marry in private and then ask their families to “remarry” in order to make their relations public and legal.
as a general rule, the husband's parents cannot take up the marriage alone, either with a respected elder or with relatives.
the woman's family would then receive her and would be very pleased to have someone who takes her place seriously.
at the time of the marriage, the man is prepared to bring to the girl a better-quality set of clothing, some salt, lumps of sugar and seven or nine larvae in five areas.
the salt and tarts in the gifts have deep meaning.
when a man asks for a step-up, she usually does not reply immediately.
she consults with her family and daughter and investigates and learns about the man's family.
if she agrees, she also informs the man if she does not.
if the marriage is promised, it will be made public, so that young men and women will be able to exchange and “lawfully” fall in love and to improve mutual understanding.
uighur refers to such a procedure as “basisi tacillassi” as a test.
after the marriage was approved, the bride price was prepared and the ceremony was held.
the bride price is an important part of the uighur marriage, and its number and quality are closely related to the economic conditions of both parties.
in general, the bride price list is provided by the woman ' s family and is determined after consultation between the parents.
in order to resolve the contradictions and differences in the bride price, a mutually trusted middleman is to be called upon to mediate and to reach agreement.
as usual, the bride price is: one or two sets of girls' four-season clothing; and decorations such as headscarfs, coats, sweaters, shoes, socks and earrings, rings, bracelets and watches.
in addition, a coat is to be made for the girl ' s father, and a dress is to be prepared for the girl ' s siblings, brother-in-law, sister-in-law or daughter-in-law.
the household furniture is also provided by the man.
the main things she married were washing machines, carpetsbedding, pillows, sheets, tablecloths, curtains, suitcases, wooden boxes, etc.
due to the economic conditions of the two parties, the dower and the matrimony vary, and as the standard of living improves, some electrical equipment and other high-end goods are added to the dower.
the uighur language is called “poor chai”.
when the bride price is ready, you have to choose to hold the wedding ceremony.
on this day, each sex will have 50 or more guests, over 80 per cent of whom will be women, and each male will be a relative or a close friend and a distinguished guest.
the ceremony is held at the woman's house.
on this day, the man will take one or two sheep to her house, and there will be a cow, and the sheep or cow will be taken by someone special.
the head of the sheep shall be covered with red silk belts, and the family shall give the shepherd a shirt or other gift as an expression of gratitude.
the sheep were slaughtered the same day, for the guests.
it is also accompanied by curds, tea, ice cream, fruit sugar, sugar, crackers, snacks, rice, oil, flour, onions, carrots and cosmetics for girls.
at the wedding ceremony, the woman is going to have to cook or to be a guest in kurdak.
the man shall announce in front of the guest a list of the bride price to the woman's family.
the person who announced the list was hired for that purpose, and in the form of a rap, he introduced people to the place, quality, performance, specifications, etc.
of each bride price.
at the same time, the bride price should be raised for everyone to see.
in general, the man who introduces the bride price has a better mouth, and he can turn his mouth around and make her happy and happy.
since the quantity and quality of the bride price is related to the price of the girl and to the sincerity of the man ' s family, the person who announces the list also has a special interest.
he was given a certain number of gifts by his family.
the same day will also be displayed with the wife's wife, as well as the presence of a three-inch tongue and the introduction of each dowry.
at the same time, the wife's family must make a dress for her future son-in-law and “armed” from head to foot.
there is also a need to prepare clothing for each parent.
at the city ceremony, in addition to the meal service, there will be recreational activities such as dancing and singing to celebrate the celebration.
in rural areas, there is generally no recreational activity, but in some uighur areas there are also traditional recreational activities.
at the end of the ceremony
, the wedding was agreed, in uighur, “poor support”.
the parties agreed on the official wedding to take place after the festivities.
after the marriage has been fixed, the parties shall not breach the contract.
sometimes, however, there are cases of non-compliance with the bride price or with a marriage in which young men and women do not agree with their parents.
the defaulter must, however, refund the bride price and bear the financial loss.
at that point, the parents also had to mediate with an intermediary until the acceptance was accepted.
due to regional differences, there are differences in marriage customs in the north and south.
it's a weddingthe uighur weddings were lavish and lively and filled with joy.
due to the faith of the uighur people in islam, the wedding was divided into two days according to traditional custom.
the first day of the wedding, at the woman's house.
in the early morning, the bride was accompanied by the best man and his family and friends, who went to the woman ' s house to welcome her.
at the woman's house, the guests stood on both sides, married by imams and imams, and recited the koran to the new ones, encouraging them to love each other and the elderly and children.
at the same time, the imams bring out two salines of salt, one for each of the bride's bride's grooms, which, while bitterly salted, symbolized the willingness of the newlyweds to share their sufferings and to grow old in white.
the family and friends present congratulated the bride and groom and danced with joy.
poppy, the guest is in.
at noon, all the men returned, leaving only their family and friends to sing and dance.
in the evening, the groom will dress up handsomely, and the bride will dress like a flower, and the veil will be at home waiting for the welcome party.
the bridegroom is run by his family and friends towards the bride's home, walking on foot and travelling by car or horse.
on the way, the groom and the boys who were greeting him played “hoves”, played a blow, sang a joyful song, came to the bride's house, and when the bride's girlfriends learned of the party's arrival, they immediately closed the door and demanded gifts to allow the family to enter.
when the groom and the family entered the house, the bride had already been waiting there under a veil, when the bride's girlfriend was going to host the guests and to give each guest a gift such as a handkerchief.
when the bride leaves the house, she must separate from her family and shed tears of joy.
this is when the singer sings a farewell song, imitating the bride's mother, to the effect that i ask you to take good care of my daughter and that the young couple live in peace.
after singing, the young men who come with the groom to greet them play their national instruments and sing their songs before and after...
the groom and the bride follow in the colored car.
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