"Marriage" after "marriage"
the tattar custom of marriage is to “marry” the groom and then “marry” back.
the marriage process consists of three or five visits by the matchmaker, and if the woman's parents so promise, the man's bride-in-law, known as the “kurak zoran” (curak zorin), is given to the bride a whole set of clothes from head to toe.
a bride price is engaged.
according to tattar tradition, the wedding is held at the bride's house, where the groom is “married” first.
a few days before the marriage, the husband sent to the bride's home all the clothes, cookers, plaques and her own “dowries” for her wedding, including gifts to the bride's parents (known as “kheit”).
on the night of the wedding, the groom will be formally married.
the marriage ceremony was also interesting.
on that day, the groom, accompanied by his best man and his family and friends, took a carriage, young men played the accordion, and was so excited to sing the tattar popular song, “nor”, singing, singing, whistling, shouting and shouting, and went to the house of a woman to marry.
in the sunset, the groom and the best men waited for the bride's house.
it will take a turn around the yard before you reach the door.
at this point, the door is closed, and the groom needs a gift to get in.
from now on, the groom goes to the door, goes to the bed, eats, sends money.
the marriage ceremony is conducted in accordance with the provisions of the islamic religion, and the newlyweds are asked if they wish to drink with the bride and the groom, after both men and women have answered “yes”, a glass of sugar water will be given to the bride, in the form of a sweet, sweet, white head to old age, and a gifted room.
the next morning, the groom had to meet her parents-in-law, go home to her parents-in-law, have dinners and various recreational events, and return to her father-in-law ' s home at night.
after marriage, both the groom and the bride are expected to stay in the house for a period of three months, or six months, or even after having given birth to a child.
the tattars treat sons-in-law with the same enthusiasm as their children.
during her stay in the house, the father-in-law and the mother-in-law must provide the best food for her son-in-law, so that her son-in-law feels as warm as living in her own home.
when the newlyweds return to their male home, the bride ' s dowry is taken with them.
on arrival, his relatives and friends will use ropes to stop the bride ' s journey, and the bride will be given candy and so on in order to let her go, return to her husband ' s home, and his relatives and friends will throw candy on the bride, and have a party and entertainment to show welcome.
towards the end of the wedding, people sing wedding songs and greet guests: no less than a hard-working faraway visitor/to add joy to the wedding/ may we see each other again at the wedding/wedding ceremony at another place/dissolve because it is too late/can't go home/ sleep in our cave。