Sexual customs and customs at marriage in Europe

Spanish weddings: Spain is a country with a long history and splendid ancient culture, and the Spanish people keep maintaining their own unique customs.

Chairs are outsiders

In other places in Spain, when young men and women are dating, they always like to place a chair or a small stool next to them, without anyone sitting on it or a partner. Originally, this was a virtual presence of outsiders, symbolizing that there was a guardian around.

The bride and groom compete for family control before cutting the cake

The most cautious and lively moment at a Spanish wedding is when the bride and groom cut the wedding cake. When the banquet comes to a press time, the staff will bring a huge plate of cake. The cake is elegantly crafted, has an effective appearance, a pattern constructed of colored cream and the word "happiness" in Spanish. The bride and groom both walked to the cake and held a stainless steel long knife amidst the cheers and clapping of the world. Different from the environment where the bride and groom work together to cut cakes at weddings in other European countries, at Spanish weddings, the bride and groom have to compete with wits to see who can miraculously take off one of the other's new shoes and who will be the winner. It is said that whoever wins a victory at the wedding will have control of the family in the rest of life.

At the beginning of the cake cutting ceremony, the groom was eager to cut the cake, but the bride actively blocked it because the groom's wrist was stronger. Seeing that the cake was about to be cut, the bride hurriedly picked up one foot and stepped on the groom's foot to break up the groom's attention to cut the cake. Who speculated that the groom took the opportunity to cut it hard, and the cake was cut into two large pieces. At the same time, he bent down and reached down to take off one of the bride's shoes, and held it high for the world to see. The guests applauded warmly, cheered the groom's victory and shared the wedding cake. In fact, this was a deliberate sacrifice by the bride in order not to embarrass the groom in front of the world. She deliberately raised her feet high and did not fasten her shoes so that the groom could take them off in one go.

When guests share cakes, they always come up with many ideas to entertain the bride and groom. In order to enhance the festive atmosphere of the wedding, the bride and groom put various requirements on the guests, and they looked coy and finally satisfied with the guests 'requirements. Some guests ask the bridegroom and bride to hug and kiss in public, some guests ask the newly married couple to introduce the end of love through beatmen and pantomime, and some guests ask them to use painting to report their future life plans... Whoever teasing the newly married couple has a wonderful method, a novel situation, and a profound meaning will win a burst of warm applause. The interesting performance of the bride and groom attracted laughter from the audience. Finally, the bride and groom danced, and the guests danced in pairs with the bride and groom. Even the bride and groom's parents excitedly entered the dance floor and danced. The lively and joyful family wedding ball is always held until dawn.

German weddings, wise men are rampant

The German nation is a nation that works hard, emphasizes down-to-earth, and values benefits rather than boastful. These characteristics can also be clearly reflected in their wedding habits.

A young man courted a woman with a white birch tree

The Germans have a unique method of choosing couples. In the Bonn area, a young man fell in love with a woman and arranged a white birch tree in front of the woman's house on April 30 or May 1. If a woman has a crush on the young man, she will place the birch tree in the living room of the home. After the young man learned about it, he immediately gave the woman a gem ring. The woman accepted the ring and kissed the young man to imply gratitude to him and take over his courtship. When the two sides were helping each other and were inseparable, they gave each other a silver ring to imply Wending. During the wedding, the two sides present each other with gold rings, implying that the relationship between the two sides will always be as pure as gold.

Located in the southwest of Berlin, there is a town called Hitjobeck. Because the town is fond of chess competitions, it is known as the "Chess Town". In this place, people with strong chess skills are highly obedient. Young guys always endure hardships and study chess skills, trying every means to make their own chess skills better, in order to win the favor of women. The young man wanted to woo a woman, so he sent a message to the woman, hoping to play chess with her father. If a woman has a favorable impression on the young man, she will make an appointment at a time and invite the young man to come home. When Xiaoyizi competed with the future "Lord Taishan", women and hundreds of people watched the battle. The young man used his eighteen skills, and "Lord Taishan" took it seriously. After some competition, the young man won. Not only was "Lord Taishan" not only not angry, but instead hinted at congratulations. As a result, the gang will receive generous treatment from hundreds of women, and the courtship will be completed.

A 40-day unmarried couple comes to a matchmaking hotel

On the island of Fur, there is a luxuriously equipped hotel that welcomes unmarried men and women. Its goal is to provide war opportunities for those who are too ashamed to ask for marriage. Those who register at the hotel must be loyal, upright and alone. The premise of staying alone is no longer than 40 days. In this era, hotel staff operate various opportunities to allow men and women to fight and get to know each other. Shelters can also call strangers through the dedicated telephone in the room to make love, so as to stop presenting the scene of being rejected. Many people lived here and were able to achieve the goal of tying the knot.

Although women's weaknesses in dating movies are not exposed

Film and drama mate selection is well received by German women. Some women have difficulty in handling marriage issues for various reasons, so they spend money to shoot a marriage scene. Under the dedicated arrangement of the director and photographer, the woman's advantages and talents in cooking, sewing, housing, appearance, figure and other aspects were vividly demonstrated on the screen. Even a very ordinary woman will turn into a beautiful and lovely woman on the screen. As for a woman's shortcomings, only her husband is clear after marriage.

Smash bowls and basins to make good signs, so that the wedding night will not be peaceful

In some places in Germany, certain pedantic wedding habits are still used, such as the popular "Puteaban" ceremony in Bonn, where pots and bowls are smashed before marriage.

In the solemn and festive air, the groom in a straight military uniform and the bride in a white wedding dress held hands, escorted by the best man and groom, and entered the wedding site. The guests signaled congratulations to the newlyweds, and the groom and bride signaled thanks to the guests. Suddenly, the sound of smashing plates and bowls sounded, and it continued for a long time, like the sound of firecrackers on New Year's Eve in China. Originally, due to traditional customs in the mainland, a ceremony to bid farewell to the old and welcome the new was held before the wedding. The guests invited to participate in the wedding each brought several broken bowls, broken plates, broken plates, broken bottles and other items. At the ceremony, people competed to smash plates and bottles, one after another, and the sound was endless. The rags brought by the guests were thrown all over the ground. The bride's parents laughed and swept the pieces of paper into a pile, put them into a dilapidated iron box, and lit them in the middle of the yard. The world sang and danced around, cheering. In the traditional wisdom of China, festive days are the objects of concealment, but the traditional wisdom of Germany is just the opposite. They thought that smashing hard with their lives could help the newlywed couple get rid of old worries and grow old together forever. What's even more interesting is that when a newlywed couple looks closely at her neighbors, someone will always break a piece of porcelain every once in a while. After hearing this, the newlywed couple must immediately smash an item to express gratitude accordingly.

Italian wedding ring that advocates freedom

Italians implement marital autonomy, gender uniformity, and free love. Their marriage habits are similar to those of other European countries. Italian men and women today have many opportunities to fight each other, and they may seek out their beloved friends. Young people get to know each other through activities such as traveling, skiing, golf, horse racing, racing, boat racing or dancing, singing, and artistic performances through classmates, colleagues, relatives, etc., or through introduction by relatives and friends. Through a period of exchanges and love, some even take the initiative to seek the opinions of their parents or relatives and friends before deciding on a lifelong event. Young men and women are divided between black and white from the moment they get acquainted with each other until they are necessary to get married. Some people experience it and then go through the final stage and get married after a year or two. Some decide to get married quickly after getting acquainted. There is no process of going through the final stage. The etiquette of a text is not extremely great. After a man and woman fall in love, the text is announced after obtaining the approval of the parents on both sides. The man must present the Wending ring to the woman and personally wear it on the ring finger of the woman's left hand. Both men and women should inform their relatives and friends about this news, announce that they have become an unmarried couple, and arrange for their parents, relatives and friends to have a meal together. Relatives and relatives should give gifts to both sides of Wending to imply congratulations. There are many legends about women wearing Wending and wedding rings. One legend is that the ring is made of gold and is very faithful, demonstrating that the marriage is unbreakable. It is round and seamless, and symbolizes a complete marriage and boundless happiness after marriage. Another legend is that in ancient times, there was no free love, and rich and powerful people often forced women to marry, or even bride theft. Men will snatch the shackles of women in the coming year. Over the years of evolution, the shackles became a wedding ring or wedding ring. After the man puts a ring on the woman, he hints that she is all to him. This is the source of the ring.

Wedding Various

After the married couple is united forever, they must hold a series of preparations for the official wedding, such as deploying a new home, purchasing furniture and various daily necessities, issuing invitations, contacting where the wedding will be held, preparing wedding uniforms, etc. Once the preparations are in place, the time for the wedding will come. The man and the woman held a consultation in advance to choose a day to get married. Italian custom sets the wedding date in spring and autumn, with March, April, July, September, and October usually occurring. Because spring is warm and flowers bloom and the weather is pleasant, especially March and April are just after the Resurrection Festival, and Resurrection is a festival where all things develop and are full of vitality, so more young men and women get married in this era. The Golden Autumn Festival is also a time that young people often choose for weddings.