The custom and process of the Hubei Eunshi family wedding

in a long historical process, the hubei enshid family has evolved into a multi-layered ceremonial system of marriage, which is complex and ceremonial, and a complete ceremonial process.

as a result of the harsh psychological qualities of the people of enshiyama, with few people in traffic, there is also an ancient legacy such as “friendship house, three nights without candles, and three days with joy”.

in general, there are manners such as curry, cuddling, shaming, balming, hawking, tea, noodles, and return.

is a man's invitation for a woman to marry.

the girl's marriage is called "leave talk".

when the man sees it, he invites the matchmaker to the woman.

if the woman agrees, the date of the agreement is “passed”.

the man is accompanied by the father or mother, with his son, by a matchmaker, who sets firecrackers.

both parents referred to each other as “family”.

since then, it has often been called “the family is two, the family is one”.

when the man arrives at the woman's house, the woman chooses to go to the family's house with her brother-in-law or sister-in-law and the media to see the family's conditions.

after that, if the woman is satisfied and consents to the marriage, the next step will be taken or will be terminated.

this is the initial procedure for booking young men and women.

it's also called "since" after "since" and "sweet" and "sweet".

when the woman agrees to marry, the man chooses his clothes, pastries, wine, meat, and leaves it in a box, with “gold books”, pens, fragrances, candles, paper money in the box, and invites the matchmaker to be formally engaged with her.

it's also called the "d" word.

the woman comes to the family and sends her daughter's daughter's birth, the month, the day and the day, in a regular form in a "gible" to the man's house called "eight words." some of the women put the above-mentioned room 4 in a box from the husband's house, some of the poems and the shoes and accessories that their daughters made for the man themselves, called the return box.

during the period of formal marriage, during the holidays, the husband goes to the wife ' s house to celebrate the year.

the choice is that a man who has reached the age of marriage and is expected to marry after full marriage.

at the age of 18 or 9, the man is given a couple of nice clothes and elbows, wine, meat, noodles, etc., and the matchmaker and the parents are accompanied by the mother and father, and the mother and father are accompanied by her grandfathers, uncles, uncles, uncles, uncles, uncles, uncles, uncles, uncles, uncles and uncles, who have given gifts and accepted the bridesmaid.

after filling in, one or several years, depending on the age of the man and the family's financial situation, the man invites the matchmaker to the woman's home to request a marriage.

if the woman so agrees, the man will be able to choose between her “eight words” and her “eight words” according to the date of the marriage, to be delivered by the matchmaker's leader with the date of the marriagewoman, it's called delivery orders.

there is also the practice of sending “two sets” of clothes to girls, i.e.

two sets of clothes for the male family after the date of marriage has been set.

since then, the woman has begun to marry each other, such as in the case of the bride, and in the case of the children, the girl should crochet with her own hands and woven with colour and beauty.

in the first two days of the happy period, the man is to invite a man who speaks and enjoys prestige to be “all in charge” and to preside over the entire period.

there are also media and receptionists.

in order to reward the matchmaker, the home must give each one of the red cloths to the old moon, as well as pull a few red cloths for the master of the 8th fairy, to be called "up-red".

at the opening of the meeting at

, the master of the master's house will be given a name to the matchmaker and master yasei, with a phrase: “lord of the red crescent, sit down.

there is no sky without rain, and there is no medium.

i'm glad you've made a great deal of effort in the past.

today, you should be in a courtyard in shanghai to bring silk to wuhan, beijing.

it was only in the county town that a rough line was drawn because of the rush of time.

the matchmaker replied: "the hand is missing!" at the first round of the wedding, the family shall be allowed to each of three days before the wedding.

the owner shall have a special seat and the head of the household shall speak to the three housekeepers on all matters.

payees are referred to as “housekeepers” or “housekeepers”, one of whom, a man and a woman, is responsible for the marriage of a man called “rubbers” or “mr.

hand in hand”.

on the first day of the wedding, led by mr.

“performance”, the matchmaker and the son-in-law accompanied him, the man was brought to the woman's house, the bride's gift, clothing, etc., and the next day's marriage, which was called an “excursion”.

on this day, the hostess invited by the man blew the twilight and led the man who carried the box to the woman's house.

at the woman's house, they put the box in the middle of the hall and then spoke with the woman's guest, mr.

hatoki, and asked for an answer, called the "box" and the "open box".

on the evening of his return, the man was at home at a party with his family and friends' unmarried sons, nine of whom were bridesmaids, who sang, drank wine, and had fun, known as the “ten brothers together”.

on this night, some candles will be burnt in the middle of the house, paper, feasts, rituals, and brides and grooms will worship their fathers.

there are places not limited to ten, where all the unmarried boys of the family and friends are invited to sit at the table, where a glass of wine is set up, and a singer is chosen to make an order and sing the opening song.

then sings in turn, eating well, and if you sing badly, you shall be punished with wine, in the form of a different syllable and a different syllable, a solo or a syllable, or a lead singer.

in addition to the good things that singers say about each other and the good news, they can sing stories, ancients, songs, etc., and others can sing with chords and silk strings.

finally, the singer will take orders and sing round-table songs.

she asked nine unmarried women to sing, drink and have fun with her, to be known as the “ten sisters together”.

in some places it is called "cry marriage" and it is greeted, advised and sad.

whoever sings in words, he will pay for care.

pleasethe crying marriage lasted until the morning of the next day.

crying marriages usually begin three or seven days before the bride's marriage, and the first half, month or even three months have opened the door for crying.

however, it began intermittently.

you can cry freely.

the relatives come and visit, and whoever comes weeps and offers thanks.

the day before and the day after the wedding, the climax of the wedding was cried.

crying during this period must be conducted in accordance with traditional rituals and must not be carried out indiscriminately.

anyone who does not cry is ridiculed and even discriminated against.

on the whole, the main content of crying is “cry parents”, “cry sister-in-law”, “cry sister-in-law”, “cry uncle”, “cry companion”, “cry medium”, “cry combing head”, “cry ancestry” and “cry sedan”.

the lyrics are made by a generation of traditional, brides and sisters who cry.

the content of this report is mainly a tribute to the upbringing of the parents and to the care of the brothers and sisters of the brothers and sisters who have complained about the grief and uncertainty surrounding the passing away of the happy life of the adolescent and the arrival of a new life.

there's also a lot of complaints about marriage, a lot of hate for the media, and so on.

the man is led by mr.

hand-in-hand to marry a woman.

they are all hired by men, led by drums, followed by banners, blowing and beating all the way to the girl's house to get married and greet the bride, known as the “kidnapping”.

when he was greeted as “mr.

hand in hand”, she stopped the door, also known as “the iron gate”.

the first was in the yard, the second was in the middle hall, each with a bench, a bottle of wine, a pot, two bowls, and a woman's “supervisor” who prevented her from marrying her relatives.

when the man's hand-in-hand approached, the gunfighter in the unit was shot, the musicians played, and he spoke to the woman “both” outside the door in an urgent manner, after having spoken to each other, who could not find out who had given the answer to the alcohol or the confession.

after these two exits, the man wins.

in the courtyard, the bands rang, the firecrackers slammed, the greeting team swung into the middle door, mr.

hand in hand shouted; “congratulations! congratulations!” put the gift list in front of the house and present it in the hall.

she's in a hurry to give the man tea and smoke.

to the god of the woman's house, light the candles, burn the fragrance paper, and honor the god of god.

opens a gift from the man and counts it as "opens the box." the practice of “stop-the-door” is either song or white or harsh.

if the man loses, the singer and the supervisor will present the three tea gifts.

the stop is over and the lobby is open.

"congratulations" are on the way.

the door was served by the woman and the marriage began after the meal.

after the women's banquet, the marriage was declared, i.e.

the candle burning on the house of the woman, i.e.

the marriage of the man.

then we'll draw the girl out of her room, accompanied by the "up-to-home" to the god, to the parents, to the neighbours, relatives and friends of the village, to the door, and to the door, to the door, to the door, to the door, to the door, to the door, to the door, to the door, to the door, to the door, to the door, to the doorkiss.

the marriage of a family member who crosses the mountain, crosses the bridge, crosses the street, crosses the river, stops the dowry before crossing the bridge, makes it necessary to send his or her guests out of the sedan to help with the sugar, which is known as a “reward”.

upon the return of the marriage team, the saloon was brought to the yard and stopped by a bench.

the cook carries a big red rooster in his left hand, with a kitchen knife in his right hand, in front of the stool, with words in his mouth, and then takes the blood of the chicken crown on the stool and on the head of the stool, then throws the chicken over the top and ends.

in some cases, the man keeps a cigarette and a chicken on the inside, and sends god to the door, which is called the "back-in-the-door" with a seven-star light and a sifter.

in some cases, when the limo arrives outside the door, the gifted person is asked to stop the sedan in front of the sedan and to call it a “stop sedan”.

mr.

yee put paper in front of the sedan and said, “my family has come to greet and your family has come back.” this custom is called "go back" and some are called "go back."

the man asks two elderly middle-aged women with children to lay a bed with the wife in the new room, and the woman in the bed will say “good things”.

that is four words and eight words of congratulations.

for example: “beds, beds, children and grandchildren; gentlemen, sons and daughters.

your son jackie chan, your daughter sung-feng, your daughter, who has lived for ten years, is blessed." the family of the new girl, who comes to the front door of the man, is to give the girl who is sifting her tea with a red bag of money.

the tea-sifting girl is sifting the tea side of the door: “a layer of cadavers, flowers as white as silver, fruit soaked, teasing and kisses.

when you get on the road, when you get to the table, when you get to the lobby, when you get to the embroidery room with the new man." "the stars are laughing, the fish in the river are jumping, the big family's daughter is not holding up." i heard his last name on the nine mile road, and i knew your tea-scanning aunt was a good man.” mr.

qiang replied: “a relative is a first-time human being.

not a year earlier, not a day earlier.

and raise your kinsmen, and make you climb over the mountains, and climb over them, and freeze the frost, and in the halls of the halls a pair of red candles of the same length, the same thick and the same heavy.

before the ceremony begins, both of them must be asked to light the two red candles, or “concealed wax”, on time.

they must be sons and daughters, filial to old age, loving to small age, conscience to man, laborable and family-friendly because they are future role models for bride and groom.

after the “stop horses”, the palanquin was carried to the front of the gate by the “round mother-in-law, one to the other, and the bride was brought out of the car.

bringing the door to the center of the hall, the bride and the groom are to worship the heavens and the earth, the ancestors and the groom's parents, which is known as the "crown".

the bride and groom enter the den after the prayer.

at that point, some brides raced into the cave, which was called a “housejacking”.

the bride robbed the house, showed that she was the best.

the bride is usually stuck in a concubine, and the groom is allowed to enter the room and sit on the bed, which means that the bride cannot prevail over the groom.

the brides are generally of a character, almost all of them have a habit of raiding houses and carving beds, sitting first on the top of the bed, and pushing the groom to the side.

it's not a good way to bully a bride.

i'm sorry