The characteristics and process of the Golden Su-Tai clan
the `p' wedding ceremony is old and full of mystery, with a unique legend and deep national cultural connotation.
as the majority of the shao people live in the pristine forest, which is characterized by mountains and landscapes, and by a very small impact on foreign cultures, they also retain their traditional and ecological national culture.
in this case, the marriage custom of the kim soo tung clan is one of the most glamorous of many clans, so let's look at the characteristics and process of the wedding.
a man is eligible for marriage only after a bar mitzvah in guangxi autonomous district.
the bar mitzvah is also called for, and only a boy who has passed the bar has the power of an adult to fall in love, to marry and to earn public trust and respect.
thus, every time a boy reaches the age of 15 to 16 years, such rituals take the form of folk religious rituals.
the weddings of
kim-soo are divided into “marriage girls” and “marriage brides”, which are very different at the ceremony.
in the home, it is considered to be a respect for the elders of the same ethnic group and to take into account the virtues of national proliferating and depravation, and the wind of the above is so prevalent.
in particular, families with only one daughter must be made redundant.
as a result, any family with a boy among the twilight clan would be happy to have its children come.
this “door-to-door” commonwealth is described by the crowd as the “groom of marriage”.
in ancient times, when a man married to a woman, he changed his family name to a woman's family name and the child followed her family name.
in modern times, the man came to the woman's house to negotiate with the woman, and the child was allowed to follow either side.
after marriage, if the husband's family is in difficulty, the couple goes back together for a period of time to help solve the difficulties of productive life and then goes back to the woman's house, which is called the “tops on both sides”.
when a man and a woman know each other, they may inform their parents of their wish to be engaged if the parents so agree.
another case of marriage is that of sole parental authority, but the consent of the child must be sought.
the matchmaker sends his son and daughter to the wife's house, and after the wizard's eight words, the woman's parents, together with the media, bring the bride price to the man's side, called the "down." it's betrothal and a decision on the date of marriage.
most of the period of marriage is after the autumn harvest, before spring.
the wedding is more focused, and three or four months before the marriage, the bride is actively preparing the dowry.
the marriage is arranged by a person who delivers chicken, meat, wine, etc.
on the night before the marriage, all the relatives of the married party came to greet her.
on the day of the marriage, fong chose a handsome and wise man to be a smoker and a beautiful and wise woman to be a tea lady, to be joined by the same drummer outside the village.
the bride's family and grandparents, uncles, uncles, cousins and so on.
the time when a new person enters the house is determined by the master according to the groom and the bride's eight words.
the bridesmaids greet the bridesmaids outside the village, and the smokers and teamaids take the bridesmaids to tea, smoke, take a break and wait for the dayit is only when the bride and the bride are brought into the groom's house that the bride takes off her grass shoes, washes her face and wears the new shoes that the bride has prepared.
when you enter the door, you greet the gentleman at the door to cut off a rooster's head, which is called a “crash” and which symbolizes the evil spirit of the woman, so that the wedding can take place.
there is also a ceremonial ceremonial ceremonial practice in which several tables are set up and banquets set up, and the groom and the bride are expected to bow to their guests three times and drink twice.
guests give gifts to brides and wives, such as belts, scarfs and silver money, and then play a round of music and firecrackers.
after the wedding guests, they are invited to take their seats, and the groom and bride salute the same as before.
high-priced dinners are large, as many as a dozen tables, and if there are many guests, they tend to wait overnight.
as is customary, after the end of the wedding, the bride is also required to send pork to his relatives and to give him a refund.
the whole process of the marriage is more expensive, and some wives have long been unable to pay off their debts for marriage.
at present, the bride price is usually determined by the family's social status and economic situation, and in addition to the bride price, a number of districts in guizhou maintain the traditional marriage tradition.
for example, the bridegroom was led by the best man to the bride's house the day before the marriage, and the bride was taken to the bride's room.
this day, the bride made soybeans, peanuts and hot tea for the groom, and ate and talked together, all night long.
on the following day's wedding, the wife asked the husband, before her ancestors' gods, to say "good things" and "sorture" to her ancestors, and then the bride's aunt and sister-in-law to wear a headscarf, dress and dress.
wearing goodbyes to our ancestors, parents and relatives, as a sign of unforgettable love.
the bride and his relatives and friends were comforted by bringing her out of the door.
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